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At least when I was a big guy, men were more interested in other aspects of me." —Erich, 24 "Gay apps usually come with some sort of sorting hat for your 'gay tribe.' It sucks that there is so much division within the gay community in that respect.It seems each tribe comes with its own set of rules for dating.Queer men are varying shades of the rainbow." —Chris, 25 "I went from a 225-pound fat boy to a 145-pound athletic guy.

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It's become a thing to hide behind a virtual wall and become something you're not.

That's why I prefer meeting someone through mutual friends or activities.

Why do I have to worry if someone ONLY dates Latin guys? '" —Joaquín, 24 "Nothing's worse than getting a message from a guy online who refuses to show you a picture because they are 'discreet." If you are an out and proud gay man, it's hard to date someone who doesn't want to be seen with you/hold your hand in public.

It's like you are a mistress but aren't since you both are single.

I was becoming attractive, to the point where other guys were staring and had lust in their eyes.

To say I wish I was a big boy again would not be too far from the truth.I feel like a lot of twentysomethings, because of immaturity, aren't as informed about the disease and stigmatize it." —Christian, 27 "If I settle with one guy, delete Tinder, and stay in all the time, am I going to miss out on The One?What if the person I'm with right now isn't the right person for me?When I step into a predominately heterosexual establishment, I feel like I have to be on guard and really careful with the people I choose to flirt with. HIV impacts everyone, no matter your sexuality, but it's still a hot button issue in the gay community, especially in dating.People are too quick not to go on a date with someone because of their status or will refuse a second date once they find out.Though I respect that, I still want to find someone in a similar place of coming out.

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